The Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Salem, Oregon

5/04/05 Newsletter

 

Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Salem

5090 Center St. NE

Salem, Oregon 97301

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THE UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST

May 4, 2005

Minister: The Rev. Richard R. Davis

Religious Education: Claire Diehl, RE Director

Shannon Remily, Asst. DRE

Office Administrator: Rose Drake

Board Chair: Chuck Howard

 

Phone (503) 364-0932, Fax, 364-3280, email office@uusalem.org

Website : www.uusalem.org


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UUCS Annual Meeting – May 15

 The Annual Meeting of the UUCS Congregation will be held in the sanctuary on Sunday, May 15 following Sunday Services. A quorum of 25% of the congregation (at least 60 members) is required. The Agenda includes

·         discussion/approval of the UUCS budget for 2005-2006;

·         a vote on the proposed Welcoming Statement for one year;

·         a vote on the proposed bylaw changes;

·         election of members to the UUCS Board of Directors and the Nominating Committee.

The Agenda, nominees for election, Board candidate statements, proposed Welcoming Statement, and proposed by-law changes were published in the April 20th UUCS Newsletter.  Please bring your copy of the newsletter to the meeting.

 

 

Reverential Ramblings

Does the world sometimes vex your spirit? Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by your cares, concerns, anxieties? Do you sometimes feel despair? Probably. Even Zen Masters, saints, sages and wise souls come upon their hard times, their intense “dark nights of the soul,” their harrowing ventures down through the “valleys of the shadow of death.” Life is a good, but it can be a great challenge, too.

When I find myself in dire states of being, it is a great comfort to realize that my feelings and perspectives on life are subjective and temporary feelings, not permanent realities. I know that in due time the dark clouds will dissipate and the light will shine down again. 

Just the intellectual recognition that one’s perspective is temporarily skewed by some setback or upset can help to restore a sense of calm and hope. Then too, the wise words of others can lift us up. Years ago I discovered a short reflection on contemplative prayer by the 19th century English Unitarian James Martineau which has stayed with me. (“The Choice is Always Ours” in The Classic Anthology on the Spiritual Way)

It’s good to invite certain encouraging words, poems, sayings and admonitions to take up permanent residence in your heart and mind. Then they are always available to you and can serve as the north star did for slaves in early American history seeking to orient themselves toward the land of freedom. 

Let me offer some brief excerpts, slightly edited for gender inclusiveness, of Martineau’s reflection to whet your appetite.

Martineau begins his meditation “Let any true person go into silence – ‘til you reach the inmost depth of all; remember how short a time and you were not at all; how short a time again, and you will not be here; open your window and look upon the night, how still its breath, how solemn its march, how deep its perspective, how ancient its forms of light.” 

This heightened awareness leads one to “feel the Eternal Presence as close upon your soul as the breeze upon your brow.”  Martineau then affirms how wondrous and transforming this recognition of Eternal Presence is: “The true proportions and genuine spirit of life open on the heart with infinite clearness….You are ashamed to have found weariness in toil so light, and tears where there was no trial to the brave. You discover with astonishment how small the dust that has blinded you, and from the height of a great and holy love look down with incredulous sorrow on the jealousies and fears and irritations that have vexed your life.  A mighty wind of resolution sets in strong upon you and freshens the whole atmosphere of your soul, sweeping down before it the light flakes of difficulty, ‘til they vanish like snow upon the sea.  You are imprisoned no more in a small compartment of time, but belong to an eternity which is now and here.  The isolation of your separate spirit passes away – and you are at one with Heaven.” 

Martineau writes not as one offering an opinion, but rather as one describing a profound personal realization.  His words inspire me, and remind me not to take myself so seriously.

Love, Rick

 

BALANCING SOCIETY AND THE INDIVIDUAL

 

I have long been fascinated by the dynamic tensions involved in achieving a balance between the “rights” of the individual and the “rights” of society.  I place the word “rights” in quotes because to me, they are not inherent, but are an artificial creation of both society and the individual.

In some cultures, the dynamics place greater value on the society.  Older European countries place emphasis on social good works, reflected in such things as socialized health plans.  More extreme are the traditional expectations placed on Japanese workers, where the individual is dedicated to the success of the company and the country, even at the sacrifice of their own personal lives.

At the other end of the spectrum lie societies in which emphasis is more on the individual, something often evident in emerging frontier and pioneer communities.  Certainly, I would place the United States in this category. 

A similar balancing of the group and the individual is contained in the biblical parable about the shepherd leaving his flock to search for the lost lamb.  Though comforting and appealing to the lost lamb, the flip side is that the shepherd left his flock unprotected. 

As I approach the end of my service as Chair of the Board of Directors of the UUCS, the fourth congregation of which I have been Chair or President, I cannot help but be aware of those dynamic tensions within all of the UU congregations I have served.  In particular, the need to balance the rights of the congregation with those of the individual are continually played out in deliberations and actions of the board.  Those rights are defined by our bylaws, Covenant of Good Relations, Seven Principles, and numerous other documents and accepted practices.

The board must establish and maintain facilities, develop a budget, and raise funds to support personnel and buildings and activities.  Yet the church is comprised of individuals who work together to help achieve the church community’s ends.  An ongoing balance must be maintained between providing a religious community and attending to the needs of each individual.

How then does the board achieve that balance?  Past experiences helps, as do direction from the bylaws, our policies and procedures, and insight about how other UU congregations function.  After that, the balance is debated on a case by case basis.  Ultimately, though, the responsibility resting greatest on the board is the health of the entire congregation, now and into the future. 

My take on these last two years is that the Board has gone to great lengths to balance the needs of the congregation with the needs and interests of the individual congregants.  The Board has faced difficult decisions in trying to attain the necessary balance.  All in all, I think we have been successful.  The UUCS has grown in many ways.  I leave the Chair position with a sense of accomplishment and with heartfelt thanks for your warm and caring support.

Chuck Howard, Chair

Board of Directors

 

Round Numbers

Since members will be discussing an operating budget for 2005-06 at the May 15 Annual Meeting, this is a good time to look at where we are in the current (2004-05) fiscal year.  The following figures (rounded for easier reading) are from Treasurer Marian Robison’s March report.

Our largest commitment is paying our staff.  Rick Davis will receive nearly $70,000 in salary, benefits, housing allowance, and auto and professional expense.  Other budgeted staff expenses total about $60,000:  about $23,000 in Religious Education salaries (DRE, Associate DRE, and RE Assistant) $16,800 for the Office Administrator, $12,000 for the Custodian, and about $6,000 for payroll taxes and retirement.  Our July1 – June 30 fiscal year was 75% over at the end of March, and 76% of the budgeted $130,000 had been paid at that time.

Administrative expenses include the copier, office supplies, postage, telephone, utilities, leadership training, and child care during some meetings.  They also include our “fair share” payments to the Unitarian Universalist Association ($48 for each of our 239 members) and the UUA’s Pacific Northwest District ($22 per member).  About $32,000 of the budgeted $47,000 has been spent.

Approximate expenses associated with the various teams through March are as follows: 

   Operations/maintenance          $3,000 out of $3,500 budgeted

   Religious Education                $2,000 out of $2,400 budgeted

   Fellowship                                      0 out of     $500 budgeted

   Social Concerns                       $400 out of  $1,600 budgeted

   Sunday Services                     $2,600 out of $2,800 budgeted

   Connections                                   0 out of     $100 budgeted

   Membership/Newcomers           $330 out of    $500 budgeted

   Financial Canvass                   $2,000 out of    $800 budgeted

Note that some expenses have been lower than expected, some higher.  Of course, further costs will be incurred before July 1.

The above budgeted expenses add up to approximately $190,000, of which $142,000 has already been spent.  The same approximately $190,000 was budgeted for income, including about $180,000 to come from pledges and Sunday morning donations ($117,000 received by March 31), $1,500 from fund raisers ($73 received), and $9,000 from rentals ($2,200 received).  Clearly, pledge payments and other donations need to continue during the next few months, and it is to be hoped that rental income increases. 

Not shown above are our mortgage payments of about $3,500 per month.  These are paid from the Capital Fund, so it is important to continue paying those pledges also.

                                                                                                               Elsa Struble

 

Women’s Alliance

The Women's Alliance will hold its annual May dinner meeting at Kwan’s on Thursday, May 5, at 6:00 p.m. Good food, good friends, and good fun.  All women of the church are invited and encouraged to attend this social eventand need to make reservations immediately.  Call President Jane Manning or Marge French.                         Marge French

 

 

Landscape Committee

Plant Sale.  The annual plant sale fund raiser for the Landscape Committee is Saturday, May 7, from 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.  This is the day before Mother's Day.  What a great present for Mom!  If you have plants to donate, please bring them to the church Friday afternoon between 4:00 and 6:00. We will need helpers the day of the sale. If you have no plants or cannot help at the sale, we need you to come to the sale to buy plants.  We always have an interesting variety for you to buy.  Please let Sharon Dearman know if you will be able to help.

Next Work Party.  The Landscape Committee will meet the second Saturday in May (NOT THE THIRD). Please put Saturday, May 14th, on your calendars. This is not hard work; it is just time-consuming.  If we had more people, we could accomplish so much. Please consider helping us. We would really appreciate it and our beautiful church would benefit as well.

Thank you!  A big thank you to Deborah Mills for donating a powered lawn mower to UUCS! We were in real need of a sturdy mower to keep up with the growing grass.

     Tom Lancefield

 

Lo, the Mawn; MOW the LAWN!  The grass has been growing, and Tom Lancefield, George Struble, and Dick French have been cutting it. Other people have signed up, but we still need a few more people to adopt a week. Phone Dick French.

 

Dick French

Wish List.  Would you like to honor someone—or some group—by donating a tree or shrub?  The Landscape Committee has compiled a wish list of trees and shrubs. For more information, please contact Sharon Dearman.

 

Reflect on the Holocaust

On May 15 at 7 p.m. UUCS will present a dramatic two hour program which will include a narrated visual tour of two of the most infamous Nazi concentration camps, Auschwitz and Birkenau, based on a recent visit by UUCS member Bob Wallace.

The award winning program “Liberation of the Death Camps,” which was aired on PBS, will be shown.  Opening and closing remarks will be by the Reverend Richard Davis. 

Donations of non-perishable food items or cash will be given to Marian-Polk Food Share in memory of those who died during the Holocaust.                             Bob Wallace

 

Take Pride in Child Advocacy

Our UUCS congregation should be commended for our true commitment to the young citizens of this community, and of this world.  We offer an outstanding RE program to kids of all ages; we have a strong Social Action program; and we wholeheartedly support the Stand for Children (SFC) organization with words, actions, and money. For example, I was proud that of the 40 persons attending last week’s town hall meeting on school funding, 20 were from the SalemKeizer Stand for Children chapter, and eight of those 20 were from our UUCS team. One of these eight even volunteered to testify!

As the legislative session is slowly coming to its crescendo, and as the races for the school board heat up before ballots are due May 17, participation and help from UUCS team members (and friends!) continues to be needed:

1)  We need volunteers during the next week and a half to do phone banking for the two school board candidates SFC is endorsing. We provide clear instructions, a short script, and the convenience of “home phone banking” - along with back-up support from Petra and Lynn.

2)  We need your thoughts on managing our team, the largest of the Salem-Keizer SFC chapter.  Should we form a UUCS-based “SFC Leader Team” of 6 to 10 persons who would attend monthly UUCS team meetings; help facilitate member involvement, planning and decision-making; and stay in touch with over 45 UUCS members.  These leaders would serve one-year terms beginning this June.

We hope everyone interested in SFC’s work will attend our May meeting, Sunday, May 8, from 12 – 1 pm at UUCS.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR "STAND FOR CHILDREN".       Petra S. Berger & Lynn Cardiff, Co-team leaders

 

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UUCS’s MEANINGFUL MOVIES

 

Cradle Will Rock

Tim Robbins’ look at post-Depression America with many parallels to today’s political scene.

 

Funny, entertaining, great cast, two thumbs up!

 

Friday May 13

7:00 p,m.

Good fellowship and conversation after the movie

 

We had a very good turnout for our first movie which was “Song Catcher”.  Our new 12’ x 12’ screen will be installed for our second movie.  Such a view!  Such a sound system!  Such a price – Cost - - - -FREE!

Refreshments: Small donation

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Community/Regional Events

Consciousness & Climate Change

In line with the UUA’s Study/Action issue of Global Warming, First Unitarian Church in Portland is holding a conference Saturday, May 7.

The full day conference includes an earth-based worship service led by Rev. Katherine Jesch, Director of Environmental Ministry for the UU National Seventh Principle Project. 

There will also be a panel of distinguished scientists who are working in climate change issues, twelve workshop choices in three sets, on-going action tables and art projects, and an evening lecture by Paul Loeb, acclaimed author of The Impossible Will Take a Little While and Soul of a Citizen

For more information see www.firstunitarianportland.org/legacy

 

Mothers Day Vigil for Peace

Sharon Scott of the Peace & Social Concerns committee of Salem Friends Meeting invites us to join a vigil on the west side of Lancaster Drive at Center St, fronting the Mall, Sunday afternoon, May 8, between 2 and 4 p.m.  They plan to highlight their message with a limerick stretched over eight signs in “Burma Shave” tradition!

Julia Ward Howe originated the idea of a Mothers Day for Peace, a commitment to finding peaceful solutions to conflict. For a festive occasion the committee suggests both men and women wear old-time costumes, perhaps with big hats.

 

 

Newsletter Guidelines

The Unitarian Universalist tries to publish items of interest to UUCS readers—information from teams, committees, and the Board; messages from the minister and director of religious education; and news about our members.  As space permits, we include items about the denomination and some of the notices we receive about Salem events.

We do not print partisan political items or members’ personal ads. We may print letters to the editor, space permitting, as long as they are written in the spirit of our Covenant of Good Relations. We do edit/condense material we receive, but we try to keep the writer’s voice. Please direct questions and comments to Elsa Struble or Lois Nodland.        LN & ES

 

 

News of the UUCS Community

Congratulations to long-time UUCS member Kay Young, honored recently by the Salem Hospital Auxiliary upon completion of 30 years’ weekly volunteering at the hospital! She was presented a pewter vase commemorating her service.

Lois Nodland is hospitalized this week for back surgery. The UUCS office will have information about her post-hospital location.

Congratulations to Diana Nicholson-Nelson on her acceptance into the Master in Social Work program at Portland State University; her studies will begin this fall.

This is the second year Amanda Nelson, Youth Advisor and proprietor of A Fashion Forward, is offering a fund-raiser for UUCS youth activities. She will cut anyone’s hair by appointment this Saturday, May 7. Suggested donation is $15, with all proceeds going to the youth fund. Tax deductible receipts will be available. A Fashion Forward Salon is located at 231 North High Street, directly west of the Cherriot Transit Mall.

Aaron Kaye, Harriet Trill and husband Glen Kaye’s son, works as a naturalist for the National Parks Service at Badlands National Park in South Dakota. He recently was chosen for a coveted two-month exchange (May-July) to help develop interpretive (educational) programs for American Memorial Park, located on the west coast of Saipan. He will also conduct prescribed fires on Guam.

UUCS member Dani Adams left for New York City this week to visit with daughter Sonya, a professor at The New School and to enjoy a reunion with English friend Sheila, who will then accompany her back to Salem for an extended stay.

Mary Edith Gilbertson reminds us that all plastic containers bearing the numbers 1 through 7 inside the recycle logo on a container bottom, can be placed into the city’s recycle receptacles.

Jo Bateman’s daughter, Melinda, fiber artist and commercial organic gardener on a farm outside Taos, New Mexico, is recuperating from a badly fractured leg, a skiing accident! Jo says, “It’s spring planting time, and no time to be on crutches!”

Jo Bateman’s sister, Alice Hill, whose breast cancer diagnosis was noted in the last issue, hoped that the lumpectomy would put an end to her problems, but it was not to be. This week she underwent a radical mastectomy of the affected breast and will follow an extended course of oral medications, a more current option than chemotherapy and radiation.

Condolences to Louise Meyers, who had anticipated commemorating her son-in-law’s murder of her daughter three years ago when she learned of her own mother’s death in Grants Pass on just the same date.

It is wish fulfillment in high order for former UUCS members Ed Lazzara and Kurt Garcia-Ottens. They have just adopted a son and have named him Leo Forrest Lazzara-Ottens!  Ed is on paternity leave. To see pictures of the happy family, go to: http://imageevent.com/edkurtleo.

Barbara Hanneman’s daughter, Laurie Speight, is in her second year with ALS (Amyothropic Lateral Sclerosis), aka Lou Gerhrig’s disease. While ALS has stripped away many of her physical abilities she writes of her gratitude for being able to see, hear, support herself standing, drive her wheelchair, use her computer, and for having a strong and loving family surrounding her.  She has moved to the use of a feeding tube and a Bi-PAP apparatus to assist breathing while sleeping. Her speech has deteriorated and using her keyboard for e-mail is laborious, so she will move to communicating orally, using a synthesized voice, the same software used by Stephen Hawking, which uses a sensitive touch button and eye movements rather than a keyboard.

May 14 is the annual ALS Auction/Dinner at the Multnomah Athletic Club, and Barbara reports that Laurie’s friends and supporters will occupy chairs at four tables!

Two UUCS members have recently been seen on a new Channel 23 Cable TV show titled Public Pulse. Lee Coyne was a panelist on a recent show on mental health, and Christine Ertl was recently taped for a future show on child abuse.

Pam Ruona, John/Tom Maluski and Dominic, currently in South Korea.

Sharing and caring of joys and concerns is a significant component of our community. If you have issues to share or know of someone who may, please contact me.

Joan Erickson

 

 

UU Wine Country Excursions

The UUs of Napa, California invite you to spend a few days enjoying two of America’s most scenic valleys, Napa and Sonoma.  Locally savvy UU guides will drive you to selected wineries, historic sites and mountain trails with breathtaking views.  You will stay in UU homes for good conversation, good breakfasts and warm hospitality.

Our offer is limited to June, July and August. All proceeds benefit our Fellowship.  Tom Wilson.

 

 

SUNDAY SERVICE AND CHURCH SCHOOL   10:30 a.m.     (Child care available)

 

May 8   “Return to Earth” The Reverend Richard R. Davis

 

Both religion and science have, in their own unique ways, served humankind well. Yet proponents of both have steered us in some dangerous directions, leading us away from a respectful recognition of “the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.” (from our 7th UU Principle)  

 

May 15 “The Seven Ministries of Meaningful Membership”  The Reverend Richard R. Davis

 

Reports on the very modest growth of Unitarian Universalism in our country are not encouraging.  In proportion to the growth of the general population, our movement is actually shrinking.    Creative, forward looking congregations willing to embrace a new ethic of commitment can counter this trend.  I have seven specific challenging recommendations to offer.

 

 

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UUCS Calendar of Other Events

 

Thursday, May 5                     Women’s Alliance dinner meeting, Kwan’s, 6 p.m.

Friday, May 6                          Adult RE Parents weekly class (every Friday, parents’ homes)

Saturday, May 7                      YRUU Fundraiser: haircuts by Amanda Nelson

                                                Lifelines Lay Ministry, 9:30 a.m. to noon

                                                Plant Sale, 9 a.m. to 1 p.m.

Sunday, May 8                        Adult RE Book Discussion, 9:15 a.m. (every Sunday)

                                                Stand for Children, noon

Monday, May 9                       UU Meditation, 7 p.m. (Mondays except Marvelous Monday)

                                                YRUU Youth Group, 7 p.m. (every Monday)

Tuesday, May 10                    “Voluntary Simplicity,” 7 p.m. (every Tuesday)

Wednesday, May 11               Lunch Bunch, noon

Chat ‘n’ Craft, 7 p.m.

Thursday, May 12                   Board of Directors, 7 p.m.

Friday, May 13                        RE Parents class (every Friday, parents’ homes)

                                                UUCS Meaningful Movie, Cradle Will Rock, 7 p.m.

Saturday, May 14                    Landscape Work Party, 9 a.m.

Sunday, May 15                      UUCS Annual Congregational Meeting, after church service

                                                The Holocaust:  A Time for Reflection, 7 p.m.